Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Generation tracks

This topic of parenting is becoming an issue, not too long ago I made some statements as per the video about the child being hit with a belt with a webcam.recording. Lemme be absolutely clear about this, to those of you who claim the child is being abused and traumatized be aware that it is this same lack of discipline in school that was the catalyst for the utter disregard for authority that persists in the education system today.

When consequences are removed i.e the rod, and the child is spoilt then the chaos to follow is what you the society complain about daily! Homicides, rapes, assault and robberies and even buggery are all degenerated forms of basic indiscipline. How does it happen? Like this; when children are aware that their actions have no consequence they will push the envelope as far as they can, consequences are borders designed to teach them that it is not safe for borders to be crossed. So let's say a child steals $2 from your wallet, then you decide untalk to the child, the child will realize that nothing more than words came of the act so they will repeat it and this time it may be $100. Of course there's also the idea of what the money will end up doing but later on for that. So now the $100 goes missing and you still have a one on one with the child and maybe do something mild like put the child in a corner to sit for the day, then what, you think that will now deter the child from stealing?? No it encourages the child to steal because nothing has happened you have not taken any form of corrective action. Now onto what the money may end up doing, a child with unearned anything is a hazard to the world, because they will place no value on these things and whether it be toys, money or your car keys expect that it will be treated with disdain because they did not earn it. That freedom pushes the child even further and that is when the real escalation occurs. Adolescents are addicted to sensations, the feelings and emotions are powerful and overwhelm them so they cannot comprehend the chaos they are heading into all because you the parent have not set any parameters via the lack of escalated discipline. Congratulations you have successfully given rise to the next generation of gangs and gang leaders as well as a new wave of crime instituted by unpunished immature radicals with the misguided invincibility of Superman!!

After all that was said some people will still talk about the child being traumatized. OK let's talk about trauma, indiscipline in children warps the mind and creates a peter pan illusion that the world is an open playground that has no rules but their own based on selfish and often misguided ideals that they define order and structure. This order and structure they anticipate as a reality is a mixture of multiple cross messages from different mediums and media and ultimately creates the chaos we see them displaying today. Do not be confused, open communication with children is important but unless there is an ultimate discipline to establish borders and boundaries all you are doing is fostering a new and even more dangerous age of mayhem, arrogance, ignorance and ultimate doom.

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